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Giving women what they want – Part 1

Honesty & Trust

Women are sick and tired guys promising the earth and delivering nothing. The men say they can to get a woman in his bed, but fail to follow through. Not all men do, but enough to make a woman be very careful indeed.

Most women know the game at times, but can still sometimes be suckered, as we all can. Then, they keep their guard even more, making it more difficult to overcome in the future.

I have a friend, let's call Carla. She is very attractive and get lots of attention from men. However, it is hard to find a man really loves. She constantly receives men she meets as just trying to bed, and understands quite well with it. Many of these guys probably want to date her with honorable intentions. However, it becomes difficult to distinguish between the honest and dishonest.

Therefore, it begins to generalize and say: "All men are the same. They are after one thing. "She desperately wants to meet a guy who is honest with her and wants her for who she is and not just his body. This leaves him vulnerable – positively – the advances of a real person, assuming they can convince their honesty.

But how can you make you look more honest? Easily. Tell them something negative about you before you say something positive. It is a clever ploy sellers use to make them appear more impartial and less selfish. Your date is likely to think: "It I said something bad about himself, which he did not do. Therefore, it seems to be an honest guy. I can trust and believe. "This adds credibility to the positive things you say about yourself. Try it, it works.

In fact, women appreciate honesty provided that, even if you think it goes against you, tell them anyway. If you meet a woman for a date and she wants to establish a long-term not to promise the world just to get your leg over. Charm it? Yes. Tell her she is beautiful? Certainly. " Make him feel special? Course! But do not say you want something you do not.

If she says she wants a long term relationship (and you do not) say: "I 'm not sure what I'm looking right now, if I'm honest. "She may not like your answer, but you'll build some trust with her, and this is important. This is a better answer than just saying, "I just want something really casual." You can tell when you know a little more. You must put it in an acceptable manner and with sensitivity.

Similarly, if you are looking for marriage, do not miss: "I'm looking for someone to marry." It feels despair. Instead, he dressed as, I think I want something a bit longer term. "She may be looking for a little more relaxed, but as it happens to you know, it may change your mind. Keep your options open at all times that the dynamics of the relationship may change as you get to know each others. Say the wrong thing and you can close the valve before knowing what the water tastes like.

Privacy

Boy, do I hear this one a lot: "It never seems to open up to me." Women are quite clear the manpower shortage apparent ability to open up and share their feelings. When they meet a man who can do it, they feel a bond much deeper than it answers a need very base of their own.

What is the big deal guys? Why do women want us to share our feelings with them? It all goes back to our conditioning office.

Men and women have very different educations. While some boys play sports in high school and one falls on pasture his leg, the other boys continue to play and the injured party is pushed to one side.

If sex has been reversed and he had a daughter who fell, things would be different. The other girls crowded around to help us see if she was alright.

Boys set to be tough and not show their feelings or being perceived as weak. Girls are much higher for working together and share their feelings and stay together. I guess you could say the boys learn to be autonomous, women's team together.

These attitudes tend to stick with us in our adult lives, our formative years are rooted in our minds more receptive. For this reason Men are afraid of intimacy and women get it.

To make women feel more fulfilled, just trying to share what you think and not bottling all. They like a man both strong and vulnerable, but us guys tend to avoid being vulnerable. But no! Fight it and open it. Contradictory as it may seem, you are less likely to be rejected if you make vulnerable than if you act the opposite. One woman you are more attractive and therefore more likely to want to stay with you.

Another important consideration is to ensure that your definition the inner being is the same as your partners. You may think you are intimate, but that depends on your perception. Check with your partner to see who matches it. You might be surprised.

One woman told me she had this problem with a guy. They simply could not agree on what was to be intimate. Therefore, she saw no future in the relationship, as the good level of privacy is essential for it.

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About the Author

Yair Czitrom is the owner and webmaster of
www.onenightstanddate.com
– An experienced online dater that took his dating knowledge and web skills as a dater and as an IT pro to help other fun seekers in today’s cyber world. He is an expert writer on ezinearticles.com and searchwarp.com